Cold Calling: The Warrior Delusion
Wendy Weiss
Good chum Wendy Weiss is recognized as one of the leading authorities on lead generation, cold calling and new business development.
If you are struggling to connect with qualified buyers or need to jumpstart your team’s production, I recommend that you download a free copy of Wendy’s newest e-book, The Cold Calling Survival Guide.
Wendy’s an amazing teacher. Her latest e-book will have you setting appointments with highly-qualified prospects within 24 hours. You can go grab it here.
Over to Wendy …..
What is the truth about cold calling? So many people believe so many negative myths about cold calling that sometimes it’s almost impossible to see beyond the darkness… Read on to discover:
Whenever someone subscribes to our email newsletter, “Opening Doors & Closing Sales,” they get an email from us asking them about their most pressing sales and/or new business development issues. We send this email because it helps us help our readers. When we know what’s on your mind, it makes it much easier to develop material that will help you.
Here is an email we recently received from a new reader:
“Since you asked, I want to let you know that I apparently suck at cold calling. I’m not a very good bullshitter.”
Wow! I feel for her. Talk about starting out from a difficult place…
But it’s not really her fault. Cold calling has been so demonized, people believe so many negative myths about cold calling that sometimes it’s almost impossible to see beyond the murkiness of the various stereotypes about what is essentially just a phone call.
This new reader unfortunately seems to believe that she needs to make stuff up and be incredibly manipulative in order to succeed at cold calling. Not true.
Here are some of the things that people believe about cold calling:
1. It’s a numbers game. It’s not. While you do have to dial the phone, sheer volume of calls is not enough to help you succeed. Today it’s simply too hard to get people on the telephone. Today you have to be targeted, strategic and skilled.
2. Cold calling is manipulation. Many people (see email from reader, above) believe that cold calling is about manipulating people into buying things they neither want nor need. Not true. Your cold call is simply your introduction. There are many ways to meet a prospect, this is one of them.
3. Go through the ‘no’s’ and hang ups until someone finally says, ‘yes’ to you. This is my personal favorite—really, who wants to do this? I call this myth the “Warrior Delusion” because a lot of cold calling training centers on how to deal with rejection. Instead, of learning to handle the ‘no’s,’ it’s a much better idea to learn the skills that you need so that prospects say ‘yes.’ Couple that with some strategic thinking and targeting and you’re in a much better place to succeed.
4. The Born Sales Person. This is a very insidious myth because it keeps people from taking action. (See the email from reader, above.) No one is born knowing how to cold call. It’s a communication skill and like any communication skill it can be learned and improved upon. (The Queen was lucky, early in her career she learned this skill and it enabled her to build a business. You can learn it too.)
Bottom line what we’re talking about is a phone call—the basic tool of any sales professional. It doesn’t have to be painful. It doesn’t have to be brutal. It’s simply a phone call.
If you’ve noticed that it’s more and more difficult to get prospects on the phone or to engage them when you do. If you’re struggling to ‘get in the door,’ I invite you to download my all new ebook, The Cold Calling Survival Guide.
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Wendy Weiss, “The Queen of Cold Calling™,” is a sales trainer, author and sales coach. Contact her at wendy@wendyweiss.com. Visit her at http://www.wendyweiss.com
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